DAY 11 - MATTHEW 5:21-26

What’s the OT law that Jesus is teaching about? What are the consequences of breaking this law?

Murder is an outward action. Jesus teaches that God’s law also sets a standard for our hearts and thoughts/emotions. What heart attitude/thought/ emotion does Jesus teach about in this passage?

How do you feel about the fact that your anger is a sin against God?

Verses 23-26 teach about pursuing reconciliation if somebody is angry with you. What does “reconciliation” mean?

Is there somebody that you’re angry with at the moment? Is there somebody who is angry with you? What would it look like to pursue reconciliation?

Reconciliation and forgiveness can be really hard. Thanks be to God, we are completely forgiven for our anger! God shows us that we can admit when we’re wrong and seek forgiveness (from Him and from others). In cases where we’ve been wronged, forgiveness can feel costly. God teaches us how to forgive - to put away our right to be angry and hold no grudges; just as God did when He forgave us (Ephesians 4:32-5:2).

In serious cases of abuse, reconciliation might not look like the restoration of relationships. Please talk to your Growth Group leader if this passage has raised past trauma that you’d like to talk through - they’re not counsellors, but they can talk to you about how to be godly in your unique situation.


1. Ask for God's help to pursue peace and reconciliation in your relationships. Praise Him for His forgiveness that frees us to forgive others.

2. J & R: Pray for the effectiveness of their preaching seminars and mentoring.

3. Pastoral Care: Pray for those providing care and support to members facing challenges, bringing comfort and hope through Christ.